I was recently asked what Christmas traditions Tommy and I had and were planning to have with our family. To be honest, the question took me by surprise because a) we really haven’t established any and b) no traditions immediately came to mind. I blame this partly of the craziness that “Christmas time” brings around for us. Since my family is in Iowa and Tommy’s family is spread between here, Washington, and California, our Christmas celebrations are seldom at home, and seldom on Christmas. Last year, we were in Iowa for Thanksgiving and celebrate Christmas while we were there and then traveled to Washington on Christmas day. In fact, I think this is the first Christmas day that we will be in Phoenix without having an extended family celebration. But after a little thought, I did think of a few.
Growing up, there were a couple of traditions that we did as a family that, if our crazy celebration schedule allows, I would like to implement with my own family. First, we ALWAYS had a real Christmas tree. I despise fake ones, at least in my own house. I once did a debate for class in high school against someone on real vs. fake trees, me of course promoting real trees. I won. Anyhoo, I will have the family tradition of having a real tree and hope to continue the tradition of going to go cut one down (this was our first year, stay tuned for a post on it=)).
Another tradition that I liked growing up was having an advent calendar in which we read a devotional and then got to stick fun felt pieces on a felt calendar. I’m going to be honest, the thing was ugly, but I really enjoyed it. I have yet to find one for my own house, so if anyone has a cute one to recommend, I’m all ears.
My family always opened presents on Christmas Eve night. This is the tradition I will probably have the most trouble keeping due to rarely being in Phoenix for Christmas. But I am going to try to keep to it as much as possible. We did stocking stuffers, main presents, and would then sit by the fireplace (note to my next home: have a fireplace) and read Luke 2. I liked this tradition because a)there is nothing as cozy as celebrating Christmas with lights dimmed, Christmas lights glowing, and a fireplace going (see previous note to my next home) and b) it leaves Christmas to be celebrated for CHRISTmas and not for opening presents (not that I’m opposed to opening presents on Christmas, it’s just how I prefer it to be done=)).
So you may be thinking, this is a great post and all, but what does this have to do with Tessa? (I’ve come to terms with where I rate when pitted again my child). Basically, by doing this, I am ensuring Tessa has a shot as getting some of these traditions, and hopefully more (Note to self: Google Christmas family traditions). You see, I know myself too well, and without some accountability, I tend to become lax, so placing this post in the cyber world will hopefully make me more accountable. Weird, I know, but true.
And for those of you who STILL don’t care and want a picture of Tessa, here ya go!
